Let's talk about postpartum rage

Postpartum rage is an often overlooked aspect of maternal mental health, yet it's more common than many realise. Studies suggest that approximately 1 in 5 to 7 women may experience postpartum rage, highlighting the need for greater awareness and support.

This intense anger can be a standalone issue or coexist with conditions like postpartum/postnatal depression (PPD/PND) and anxiety. Recognising the signs and seeking  support are important steps toward healing.

Understanding postpartum rage

Postpartum rage involves sudden, intense feelings of anger or frustration during the postpartum period. Unlike the sadness typically associated with PPD, postpartum rage manifests primarily as anger, irritability, and a low tolerance for frustration.

Signs to watch for

• Intense irritability: Feeling disproportionately angry over minor inconveniences.
• Physical aggression: Urges to scream, slam doors, or hit objects.
• Persistent frustration: Inability to let go of negative thoughts or feelings.
• Emotional outbursts: Frequent episodes of uncontrolled anger.

Relation to postpartum epression

While postpartum rage can occur independently, it often coexists with PPD. Approximately 22% of new mothers experience mood disorders postpartum, which may include symptoms of rage.

Strategies to manage postpartum rage

1. Acknowledge your feelings: Understand that experiencing rage doesn't make you a bad mother; it's a signal that you need support.
2. Seek professional help: Consult healthcare providers specialising in maternal mental health for appropriate interventions.
3. Practice self-care: Prioritize rest, nutrition, and activities that promote relaxation.
4. Join support groups: Connecting with other mothers can provide emotional support and practical advice. Finding a local Mother's Circle can help.

Support available in Dubai

A valuable thing to do if you are feeling symptoms of postpartum rage or postnatal depression, it can be helpful to start building community support and friendships with other mothers. Dubai has many mum and baby groups and events, some of these are listed below:

• Lullabies baby massage classes: Enhance bonding with your baby while learning soothing techniques and connecting with other mothers.
• Mamahub’s weekly playgroup at reform (Fridays): A welcoming, relaxed environment with support for mothers and babies to connect over coffee.
• The Mumfolk’s regular playdates: Coffee mornings, soft play and events to help you meet other mums and their little ones.
• The Child Unplugged’s Playdates: Open ended play for your little one, as well as the opportunity to meet other mums.

Getting out and active can help lessen feelings of isolation and provide a network of support. So many mums feel the same, and talking about it can help to manage and lessen symptoms.

Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength. By acknowledging your feelings and reaching out, you're taking important steps toward healing and well-being for both you and your baby. Talk to someone you trust and lighten your load by getting the support you need.

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